Etiquette
Great chemistry starts with great communication, and I want you to feel completely at ease when we meet. To make planning our time together as easy as possible, I’ve gathered all the important details in one place. I invite you to read through this page before reaching out, so we're on the same page from the start.
Before We Meet
Who I Welcome. All races, ages, genders, orientations, and abilities, including those new to companionship or dating. I value kindness, curiosity, and thoughtfulness.
Communication. Clear, concise emails make scheduling effortless. The best conversations happen in person! My rates cover time and companionship only; explicit or suggestive (e.g. “adult fun”) inquiries go unanswered.
Screening. A little screening helps ensure we're both comfortable and that there are no unexpected overlaps in our personal or professional lives. For example, shared neighborhoods, mutual friends, or career overlap.
Deposits. Once screening is complete, a deposit is required to secure our time: 20% for standard bookings, 50% for FMTY/touring dates, payable via CashApp, BTC, or ETH. Please check that these payment methods work for you before reaching out, as I'm unable to accept Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle.
Accomodations. As an intentionally low-volume provider, I do not maintain a permanent incall. I'm happy to meet at your well-reviewed hotel (a few favorites for inspiration: Boston / Greensboro) or freshly-cleaned private residence. Should you prefer I play travel agent, simply reimburse the cost along with your deposit.
Cancellations. Deposits and travel fees are non-refundable. Cancellations within 48 hours incur a 50% fee; within 24 hours, the full booking fee applies. In the rare event I must cancel, your deposit will be promptly refunded with my sincere apologies.
Gifts/Tips. Never expected, but always appreciated. A thoughtful gift or tip leaves me with a lasting reminder of our time together. If you’re so inclined, I gravitate toward gifts that are wearable, sharable, or practical.
During & After Our Date
Payment. The remaining balance is due in cash — or crypto with notice — at the start of our date. An envelope, greeting card, gift bag, or even a book is a lovely touch, especially in public. I may step away briefly to confirm. Note: ATMs often have daily limits, so plan accordingly!
Personal Care. I'll arrive looking my best, and I appreciate you doing the same: freshly showered, minty breath, and attire suited to the occasion. You’re welcome to freshen up at any point during our time together.
Safety. I do not engage in activities that risk our health and safety.
Reviews. I am strictly a no-review companion. If you wish to share some words of admiration or suggestions for the future, a post-date email is always welcome.
References. I'm happy to provide one reference per date if we've met within the past year. Please email me the companion's name in advance so I know you have permission to release information about our time together; otherwise, to protect your privacy, my default response will be that we have not met.